SheDot Shhh...Talk


As we all know there are many fakes and phonies trying to infiltrate the system but the 'real' always recognizes 'real'! Being from and living in Atlanta there has been an outbreak of people trying to be something they aren't. People constantly represent things they have no clue about or only want to be accepted in.  Be yourself my darlings...as cliche as it may be that's the only way to stand out, accepted and respected. After all who are you trying to impress? I guarantee whoever it is probably could give 2 craps less about the 'frontin you' and are more interested in how you can help put them on or increase their popularity.  So in the words of Bun B, "don't let hoe niggas and hoe shit take you out of your lane!"

Fly Away...Fly Away

By: SheDot
So you are from out of town and you think you are better, smarter, and more refined than the people who welcomed you here? Where they do that at? (Yes, I know don't end a sentence with a preposition) 

There comes a time when "any disrespect and we will make your a$$ fly away," becomes really REAL!  Upon a large increase in transient Atlantans thinking they can arrive in the "A" set up shop and start acting like they run the city has compelled me to remind you fools that, "You are welcome to come. You are welcome to stay but any DISRESPECT and WE WILL make your A$$ fly away!"

Lets be very clear about the fact something attracted many, if not all of you (transients) to the wonderful city of Atlanta; whether through tragedy (Hurricane Katrina), being run out of your own city for poppin' and flexin', or just because you wanted to reinvent yourself (cause you were/are a lame where you are really from). You (transient) heard that Atlanta would be the best place where you could come be embraced, supported, and given opportunities that NO ONE else would give you!!!

Whatever the reason you are here in Atlanta doesn't really matter.  What really matters is that you don't get bigger than your britches and stay in your transient lane because at the end of the day, we started this shissh and we gone finish this shissh-check the history books!!!


 A Nation’s Return of the Living Dead!!!

By: SheDot

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When images such as the one above appear on-line and are circulated in mass format why do we expect anything other than the grim outcomes we (the entire nation) face in the near future.   This nation is mirroring the fictional plot line of ‘The Return of the Living Dead.’ 

Troubled homes, broken relationships, anger and animosity are the only things that are sure to continue to plague us if attitudes and opinions about life and the forward progress of the nation do not change.  Life is more than what we see portrayed in the various forms of media from television to social networking.  Young ladies are increasingly lowering their standards in order to be accepted i.e. Amber Cole.  Young men are purposely not pushing themselves to achieve more.  It appears  they clearly only want to rap and mock the educational system i.e. Waka Flocka. 

This is a problem America! Is not a black problem, white problem, or Hispanic problem!!! We are all responsible and shall be held accountable for our actions towards one another.  We are all responsible for how our children are natured and nurtured.  Children are products of what they see and experience thus if all we can continue to show them is foolishness and buffoonery then don’t chastise them when things go array; take a long hard look at what we have offered them.   According to David Banner and few other more conscious rappers and entertainers people are tired of being fed ignorance and pretending that we like it. 

As we approach this holiday season challenge yourselves to be a better you.  Arise from amongst the dead and challenge your neighbors to be a better them.  Simplify your lifestyle by doing those things that foster healthy relationships.

Click here for a few tips   http://www.k-state.edu/counseling/topics/quick/relationship.htm !!!

 

DEFINITIONS of STOOPID (STUPID)-DEAD BEAT BABY "OTHERS" (read:babymama's and daddy's)

Definitions of Stoopid are the opinions of various idiotic, immoral, and just plain ole stupid sayings, actions, and/or beliefs of everyday "common" folk. Those things that make you say to yourself 'what da hell' These Definitions of Stoopid are solely the view point(s) of SheDot the Stiletto SHE.E.O and do not represent the opinions view points morals or ideals of any of the partners and or affiliations mentioned on this blog site.


Parents i.e. "baby others"(moms/dads) If you say over and over again that you are balling, taking pictures with wads of cash (on facebook) basically straight STUNTIN' but you haven't paid your child support-you are not WINNING!

Parents people please understand if you ball out of control and experience all of life's luxuries should not your children be able to experience the same? After all don't flex to the world about "WINNING" if you are truly a "LOSING" parent. Beyond luxuries are life's essentials i.e. education, nurturing environments/relationships, food, shelter, clothing etc. If before now, modern times, they thought it took a village to raise a child why would this time require anything less than 2, a pair, a team. Time is priceless and therefore moments with your offspring (a direct reflection of yourself ) should be cherished beyond any dime, dollar, or good time.

 

 

DEFINITIONS OF STOOPID(stupid)-Women Paying for the "D" is it Low "Self" Esteem or What???


Definitions of Stoopid are the opinions of various idiotic, immoral, and just plain ole stupid sayings, actions, and/or beliefs of everyday "common" folk. Those things that make you say to yourself 'what da hell' These Definitions of Stoopid are solely the view point(s) of SheDot the Stiletto SHE.E.O and do not represent the opinions view points morals or ideals of any of the partners and or affiliations mentioned on this blog site.

Ok ladies its one thing to live out fantasies and its perfectly ok to indulge in the occasional dingleling retreats with girlfriends but it is just down right STOOPID to pay for the "D." I mean after all paying to have sex with a man or even "keeping" a man (other than your son til he is 18) for companionship or any other reason should be against the MF'n law. Really ladies its almost as outlandish as flip flops in Alaska-I mean you can do it but why would you want to??? If we didnt learn anything from our Mama's and Grandmama's it should have been "make them put money in your pocket book. Not take money out!" The true essence of a woman is not how much she can do for her man, a man, any man but how she completes him!

Listen carefully since some of y'all missed the lesson from Mama and Granny... this aint devil turned holy roller but this is a swift reality check- You were made from man more specifically from his rib cage thus for all of you lonely women with border line "self" esteem issues remember you were made whole and complete. If anyone is missing something its the man looking to fill his void-that missing rib from his rib cage. Be Needed not Needy and know the difference!!!( you making us real women work too hard AND look bad step it up)

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